This is the first year I won’t be in Madison for the holidays (it just didn’t seem feasible to travel this year), and I’ve been feeling a little blue about it. I was thinking about my situation last night, when I got an e-mail from a good friend who is also facing a tough holiday season. (This is her first Christmas without her father, who passed away this summer.) She commented that she’s been focused on counting her blessings these days – and I realized I should take a cue from her. Instead of focusing on what I’ll be *missing* this year, I’ve decided what I should do is focus on what I’ve *gained* and what I’m blessed with – namely, a sweet little baby. Another friend, as well as my mom, suggested I consider Zoe the ultimate present – and that also comforted me.

I might not make it to Madison this year, but Q and I do have a lot to be thankful for. And there is always next December to look forward to!

-M

 

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