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Happy Groundhog Day…and Birthday!

Monday, February 2nd, 2009

Well, Zoe had a very exciting weekend. First on Saturday we went to Little Learners at the Zoo and learned about alligators. Zoe even got to touch a lizard! Then on Sunday it was our annual Super Bowl party. This year Zoe dressed up as a little cheerleader and had a ton of fun eating, drinking, and running around with friends all day (not much different than her mom and dad). Then today Zoe got to see Phil, the groundhog, emerge from his burrow and see his shadow, which according to legend signals six more weeks of winter. All very exciting, and pictures to come soon…But the most exciting is that her Uncle Dan has a birthday today. Happy Birthday Uncle Dan!

Jon Q (and Zoe)

25k is here! And the winner is…

Saturday, January 31st, 2009

…ME! Who woulda thought that my quick check of the website before hitting the sack would be so fruitful? Since site rules prevent me from winning, we’ll just have to double up the prize for 30k! Have a happy Super Bowl Sunday everyone.

Jon Q

25k

A favorite book

Saturday, January 31st, 2009

As mentioned in the recent update, Zoe loves reading books on her own; we often find her in the “book corner” of her bedroom, flipping through pages and chattering away. One of her current favorites is “I’m a Big Sister,” and I caught on video one of her recent readings. If you listen carefully you can make out some familiar words: “baby,” “cry,” “milk,” “stroller,” “sleeping” and “the end.”

-M

Some thoughts from Mom

Thursday, January 29th, 2009

I haven’t posted much (anything, actually) about the new baby – and I realize this is in sharp contrast to the early days of our blog, when I posted about “Sesame” at least once or twice a day. It also recently occurred to me that I haven’t opened one book on pregnancy or paid much attention to the weekly e-mail updates I receive about the baby’s development this time around. There are even times when I actually forget I’m pregnant – which I don’t think ever happened with Zoe.

It’s not that I’m not excited about the pregnancy or the baby – it’s just that things feel very different this time around. Unlike the first time, I don’t have the time (energy) to read lots of baby books or think much about what’s happening: I’m too busy juggling work, parenthood and playtime. And the truth is that since I don’t know this baby yet, my primary focus remains on Zoe.

In the beginning, when I did take the time to think about the pregnancy, it was usually to feel bad about Zoe – like I was cheating her out of something by having another baby. I felt guilty that I was often tired and grumpy and sometimes not in the mood to play with her, and guilty that she’ll no longer have our undivided attention when the new baby arrives. (I also couldn’t fathom how I could possibly love a new baby as much as I love Zoe – but that’s something for a different post.) Though I was fairly sure these feelings were normal, and likely experienced by most second- or third-time moms, they were hard to shake…

These days, I tell myself that Zoe probably doesn’t mind when I’m low-energy – since that means she gets to watch more of Imagination Movers, her favorite TV show. And when I do take a few minutes to actually think about the baby, I focus on the good stuff: how excited Zoe will be to meet her and what a good big sister Zoe will likely be. It will be a great adventure to expand our little family, I think.

-M

Diner Time

Wednesday, January 28th, 2009

Recently we went to our favorite diner, the Manor, to grab some yummy tuna melts. Mommy snapped some shots of Zoe feeding Daddy that we thought we’d share.

Jon Q

Eating at the Manor
Eating

Zoe’s Getting a Sister!

Monday, January 26th, 2009

Today was a big day as we found out that Zoe is getting a sister! The doctor said that everything looked great and that Poppy was most definitely female. We’re all very excited that we’ll be adding another little girl to our family and love that we can put all that pink of Zoe’s to good use!

Jon Q

Our little Poppy
Poppy

I’ll miss you

Monday, January 26th, 2009

“Bye, Mommy,” Zoe just said to me as she headed out to Elena’s with Q. “I’ll miss you.” My heart just about melted… What a way to start the morning!

-M

Whoa…25k!

Sunday, January 25th, 2009

Just 6 months ago we were writing a 20,000 hit post and now we are approaching 25,000 hits! In honor of this feat, we are going to give another prize to our 25,000th visitor. If you come to the Zoe site and see the 25,000 marker at the bottom of the page, you win! Just send us a screen shot of the moment so we can post it and you will receive a surprise. Thanks for making Zoe’s site such a hit!

Jon Q

Two year, two month update

Friday, January 23rd, 2009

When Zoe turned two, I decided to write less frequent monthly updates. But Zoe has changed so much since her birthday that I just had to prepare another one.

If we thought Zoe talked a lot before, we had no idea what we were in for! Zoe is constantly chattering and often comes up to us and tells what sound like long stories (though we’re not always sure what she’s saying). She still uses baby sentences like “No want this” or “No like that,” of course, but she also talks in real, full sentences. (I posted a few of the funnier ones below.) She has her favorite phrases, like “You’re funny!”, “What are you doing?”, and “What’s that?” (which she started to ask non-stop just a few days ago), and after we answer her questions, she usually says, “Oh, okay!” and carries on.

She is still pretty independent, often demanding that she do certain things on her own. When I try to feed her, for example, she’ll usually grab the spoon or folk out of my hand and say, “I do that!” or “I want to do myself.” And she recently started taking books out of our hand and saying, “I read that.” (She usually proceeds to flip through the pages and point out what she sees.) If she does something challenging, like climb on top of something or get to a hard-to-reach object, she’ll often say, “Got it!” triumphantly.

Along the same, independent line, she’s usually pretty good at entertaining herself and playing on her own. As I’m typing this, for example, she’s in her room, going through her books and “reading” them to Panda.

Speaking of Panda, Zoe has a whole posse of stuffed friends: she’s still most fond of Panda, but she also enjoys her baby, Baby Dog, Big Dog, and Baa Baa Black Sheep. She often carries one of them around with her, and we wake up most mornings to her either talking (loudly), singing or reading to them in bed.

As for other developments: she likes to count, and can usually get to eleven or twelve on her own. She also finally got her colors down: while she used to call everything pink (or, for a time, yellow and purple) she can point out the right color about 90 percent of the time. She knows the lyrics to a surprisingly large number of songs, and she has really started to remember people. (She frequently asks when she’s going to see Zander and Miles at the playground, and she often asks about her far-away relatives, including Coco!)

Zoe still has her little quirks. She loves looking in people’s mouths and saying, “I see that!” for example. And she loves talking about whether certain foods are hot and cold – she’s constantly asking us about the temperature before we take a bite of something.

Though Zoe has her fair shares of (usually short-lived) tantrums, she definitely has a sweet side. When I was having a bad morning and wound up crying recently, she came up to me with a look of concern and planted several kisses on my face. (Now, whenever she hears me sniff, she’ll look at me and say, “No cry, Mommy.”) And she likes to give us praise for things. One night, after we showed her how to drink from a cup using two hands, she saw that Q was using both of his and said, “Good job, Daddy! Two hands!” Very sweet…

-M